By definition itslef the word is used to describe negative feelings to the person who hears it, but Why saying NO is important for childrens because this is the age where the development of child happens, it comes naturally to few kids by genes but to some it takes a lot effort to say NO.
Expereince what happens to Kids when we Say this magic word …Let me tell you a story..
This is a story of kid 5 years of age . She lived with her parents in a nuclear family.From childhood she has been pampered with toys , games, books , whatever she asks for it hs been given to her. She is the most lovable child of her family.she is playful with parents and siblings but somehere at some age there comes the need to play with age mates where we learn social connects and relationships better.Days goes by they share toys for
Playing, share food items, they exchange small items too for home spent whole day in playing together. Other day her parent tried to speak to her child on the exchnages and time she has been spending on . Child responded to her saying – “Sharing is Caring na Mumma you only have told and you only tell me to play insated of watching TV/ mobile “.
Where have we gone wrong as a parent here, Have we tried to make them understand to Say NO also sometimes , benefits of saying NO and how it will help to be a better person insated of sharing and becoming a people pleaser. YES comes with it’s own problem. Cultivating the boudaries of YES and NO at early stages to be mastered to have healthy and peaceful mind ….and remember it’s always a Work in Progress situation..
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